Business Advice from People Who Think Kids Run on Airplane Mode

"We all have the same 24 hours!"

  • Person whose biggest responsibility is keeping a succulent alive

Dear Business Guru With No Dependents:

"Just wake up at 5am!"

  • Someone who's never been up since 3am with a vomiting child

"Time management is easy!"

  • Person who doesn't have to manage 5 other humans' time first

"No excuses!"

  • Individual whose only deadline is their own

The "Rise and Grind" Translation Guide:

When they say: "Just batch your content!" They mean: "I've never had a toddler delete my entire work file"

When they say: "Time block your day!" They mean: "I've never had to abandon my schedule for a school emergency"

When they say: "Stop making excuses!" They mean: "My pet goldfish is very self-sufficient"

Advice from the Chronically Unencumbered:

"Just focus!"

  • Person who's never tried to work while a tiny human screams "MAMA" 67 times in a row

"It's all about priorities!"

  • Someone whose priority list doesn't include keeping other people alive

"Stop procrastinating!"

  • Individual who's never had to choose between work and a sick kid

To Every 23-Year-Old Business Coach:

Your morning routine:

  • Wake up

  • Meditate

  • Journal

  • Workout

  • Smoothie

Mom's morning routine:

  • Wake up (if you slept)

  • Keep tiny humans alive

  • Clean something that was just cleaned

  • Find the missing shoe

  • Negotiate with terrorists about breakfast

  • Remember you haven't peed since yesterday

Special Category: Fitness Influencer Edition

"Just eat less and move more!"

  • 22-year-old with peak hormones to a perimenopausal mom of three

"No time for exercise is just an excuse!"

  • Person whose body hasn't been inhabited by another human

"Meal prep is so easy!"

  • Someone who doesn't have to cook for picky terrorists

The "Expert" Takes:

"You need better boundaries!"

  • Person with no tiny boundary terrorists at home

"Just hire help!"

  • Trust fund baby who thinks money grows on the family tree

"Delegate more!"

  • Someone who's never had to re-do all the delegated tasks anyway

Reality Check Corner:

Your "productive" day:

  • 8 hours of focused work

  • Scheduled breaks

  • Peaceful lunch

  • Designated email time

Mom's "productive" day:

  • 27 interruptions per hour

  • Lunch while standing

  • Conference calls from school pickup

  • Emails between soccer and homework

  • Meetings with surprise guest appearances

To The "No Excuses" Brigade:

Please tell me more about:

  • How to focus while sleep deprived for 5 years

  • Managing client calls during tantrums

  • Writing emails one-handed while holding a baby

  • Meeting deadlines during school holidays

  • Running a business from the pediatrician's office

Bonus Round: Special Recognition

🏆 Most Tone-Deaf Advice from Someone Without Dependents 🏆 Excellence in Assuming Children Are Optional Tasks 🏆 Distinguished Service in Privileged Time Management 🏆 Lifetime Achievement in "Just Do It" Simplification

And Finally, A Word About Those "Same 24 Hours":

Your 24 hours: Yours to plan My 24 hours: Negotiated with tiny dictators

But please, tell me more about how I should just:

  • Be more disciplined

  • Plan better

  • Focus harder

  • Want it more

  • Wake up earlier

  • Stop making excuses

While I finish this email between:

  • Making lunches

  • Finding lost socks

  • Kissing bruised knees

  • Checking homework

  • Managing meltdowns

  • Running a household

  • Oh, and keeping actual humans alive

 
 

P.S. Feel free to ignore this advice. I'll be here when your first kid shows you exactly how wrong you were.

P.P.S. And yes, I wrote this while hiding in the bathroom during my only 3 minutes alone today. 😉

P.P.P.S. Crafted with my AI thinking partner after the 47th '5am club' suggestion from someone who's never met a toddler. Want to process your own thoughts without the toxic positivity? Grab the Permission to Process Guide.

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